Search of the perfect



Billion of eyes are wandering in search of the person who is caring, loving, responsible,sensitive,handsome, and sincere in the whole world. the youth,the parents and even the parents of the parents are heard saying," i want a person who...." the ages are passed but that person is not found. Advertisements are made saying,"An educated,smart,good looking,young and sensible guy/ girl is required." but all went vein. certain people took the responsibility to find missing personality in the society but a horrible failure welcomed them. now the two ways can b adopted- either to get that Mr/ Ms perfect manufactured or to give up but the problem is that neither the manufacturing of the perfect in this limited resourced world nor we are ready to give up. so this search will be continued in the poor coming generation too.

Last night i heard my mum mentioning the famous Mr perfect while she was talking to the wife of my brother.it made me little alert and compelled me to intentionally listen to their conversation. she was saying," i want a Mr perfect for Ayesha but the available options do not satisfy me.IN some cases there is horrible age difference while the others don't have good earning resources." she was really worried about it. this made me sit in isolation and put me in the ocean of thinking about this matter. i was really upset to see my mum tensed for me once again. this is the matter which is being discussed almost in all the eastern families. after the failure of my first marriage it was really a matter of a damn serious value for my family.

Talking generally , the search of the Mr.perfect is the ongoing tension of the youth as well. To get Mr/Ms peefect is one of the imposed aims of the parents on their kids since their childhood. EVerything is being related to this in one's life. the very common sentences heard by parents are," if you wont study,you won't get good job and ultimately you won't get Ms. perfect." " if you won't be educated and master of domestic work, no Mr.perfect will marry you." We are are blindly working day and night to achieve the aim of life without thinking to change the track of our lives by being realistic.

Let us take the first step towards reality. won't it be better if we focus more on being productive and rational? Won't it be a good step if we prepare our upcoming generations to face the reality manfully instead of living in the fantasy world? wont it be better if we find the solutions of the faced issues than blindly running on the false imaginary endless track?our. each object of life should be related to a differnt detination. instead of peesuong a perfect buddy we should learn to live flexibly and harmoniously with other fellowbeings.in fact in this era of stress and anarchey we can make a way for others to uplift their standards of humanity by being an example ourselves first.

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  1. It's true in some cases but not always..
    definition of perfect is different in different people..
    Smeone thinks dat having money is success n someone thing being wel educated is success so being successful is different 2 different people...
    Everyone wants things dat he likes it's dreams dat motivate people 2 work hard 2 achieve aims..
    Life is something more than having Mr perfect..

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  2. sari bat theek kahi ap ny, yehi reality hy hmari society ki, perfect k liye jan azaab me dali hoti aj kal, youth k mind me aik dar beth gya hy k jb tk achi job r education nai ho gi to perfect partner nai mily ga, perfect k peche bhaagny se better hy insan apny level ka bnda dhoond ly ya agr usko koi b mil jaye to Allah ka dia smjh kr usko apna jan kr compromise kr k khush rahy, na k us me keery nikaly jayen k ye perfect nai etc, perfect to is dunia me koi b nai hota, ksi k pas education hy money nahi, ksi k pas money hy education nahi, agr ye sb hy to character acha nhi, perfect nhi mil skta kbi insan ko, last part me jo bat likhi gyi hy agr hr insan indivdually is pr amal kary to kafi hadd tk change a skta hy society me.

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  3. Thought provoking article! Very well written and concluded by author. No one is Mr or Mst Perfect, This is wrong thought or fantancy which elders are feeding in younsters mind which is resulting in failure and broken expectations in majority of the cases. Our studies, career and life should not be focussed on Mr/Ms Perfect rather our elders should educate and prepare us for all kind of scenarios and conditions. Khoob se khoob tar ki talash to azlon se jari hai aur jari rahegi per milega wohi jo kismat mai hai so not to worry about Perfect match.

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  4. Very Well said i agreed with you.

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